女孩子应该这样活才算很坚强

1.收到甜言蜜语的短信，记得微笑，然后删除。
2.想办法努力赚钱，而不是如何省钱。
3.愤怒的时候，数到30，再说话。
4.喜欢的东西自己努力买，不要指望别人送。
5.少喝果汁多吃水果，少吃零食多喝水，少坐多站，少想多看，少说多做，少怀旧多憧憬。
6.永远不会再有第二个男人像爸爸这样爱你，所以最爱的男人当然是爸爸。
7.不要认为找个有钱男人就什么都有了。世界上年轻的女孩子，多的就像货柜上的可乐，喝不喝都无所谓。
8.吃下去的就坚决不再吐出来，所以吃之前要想清楚。恋爱也是。
9.寂寞的时候，不要听慢歌，怀旧或者腻死在网上，站起来做运动或者去找朋友八卦。
10.看透的时候，假装没看透。
11.工作的你，和游手好闲的你，绝对不是同一个人。
12.做好防晒，但记得适当地晒晒太阳。心情也会进行光合作用。真的。
13.真正看中的东西就买，不要借钱。真正喜欢的男人就追，量力而行。
14.银行卡的密码不要用男友的生日。
15.永远不向从前的恋人诉苦。
16.出门之前，根据步行的时间和强度考虑要穿的鞋子。
17.要读好书,陶冶情操,提高品位。
18.可以淘便宜的衣服，但记得自己的品位比这个价位高。
19.桌上的护肤品永远比化妆品多，贵，好，对于女人来说外养不如内调。
20.养成写日记的习惯，哪怕只言片语。
21.可以不认同，但学会尊重。
22.注重内心，但不忽略外表。
23.做不了决定的时候，让时间帮你决定。如果还是无法决定，做了再说。宁愿犯错，不留遗憾!

别拿你的脾氣來挑战我的個性

1.伤害我的人，我会一直保持微笑， 因为我不喜欢与狗计较；　　

2.欺骗我的人，如果被我知道，轻者一笑而过，重者请自觉的滚出我的视线；

3.出卖我的人 ，我向来是，一次不忠、百次不用；

4.喜欢我的人 ，朋友之间的友情在我心里一直胜于爱情；

5.骂过我的人 ，脏话代表不了你多大事 ，你还没资格让我为你破坏自己的形象；

6.关心我的人，你们的关心我统统记在心底，我什么都没有，但绝对的有良心；

7.抛弃我的人 ，我不会因此而恨你，因为总有一天你会发现你抛弃的人是最爱你的；
耍心眼子的，没良心的，没有孝心同情心的，给我滚，不喜欢和畜生打交道；

8.我可以包容朋友犯下的任何错 ，但记住我的包容有底线；

9. 任何真心话，我都愿意用心去听，对我真心的人，我会双倍回报，陷害我的人，我也会双倍奉还

10. 朋友开心时候记得我 ，难过的时候记得还有我；

11.女人不要拿你的漂亮当你的资本，心美的女人才是最美；

12.男人不要拿你的金钱和你的车来炫耀你的本事，因为你不是李嘉诚也不是比尔盖茨；

13.不要做随便的女人或男人，因为随便的前提是：下贱；

14.坚决不做第三者，宁愿孤单终老；

15.不会把自己的幸福建立在别人痛苦上，因为人的心都是肉长的；

16.喜欢低调、不喜欢张扬、喜欢安静、不喜欢喧闹 ；


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...way through the month of October

I'm back to my theory class dy, six weeks of posting down & there's four more weeks to go, fast fast fast !!

I've been busy with assignments nowadays, actually assignment can be done smoothly & without tension....now blame those group members who are so so not responsible, lazy, & those who are mad with their partner ! Okay at least you are humble enough when you are not doing anything, but then i don't know why there exist people who have such big mouth till they talk only without any action, like you Know everything...excuse me everyone know u are the one who repeat sem & u still don't feel ashamed?? Anyway i'm always deaf whenever i encounter your big mouth!... Well nevermine, although it takes a lot of time & effort to complete the assignments, i'm the one who will gain the knowledge rite? & so, cheers :)

Yesterday i just booked my new year ticket, geez i'll be leaving Kuching on the fourth day of chinese new year dy, blame next year's timetable & blame the XX , ok it's not nice to critisize too much... that means i won't get a chance to go visiting with fellow friends, & supposely we use to attend open house.....Sien!

Nowadays i always get sore throat, hehe, coz i always eat peanuts. Peanuts allows us to feel fuller & since i rarely eat meat one (coz i got not stock in my fridge), it's considered a good source of protein,yea right i'm health conscious k, but then sometimes i'll lost control when there's nice food....especially cakes, i got sweet tooth wan haha....... & so i have to drink water ++ to counteract the sore throat
Recently i've just read a book it's about "diet based on your blood group & i just found that

I'm group A positive,
- which has the highest risk of getting heart disease & cancer compare to other groups. OMG!
- has the thickess blood. okay that's true i know that my blood is very thick
- stomach produce very less stomach acid. ...no wonder i rarely get gastric wan, i even ask people how does gastric pain feel like ei hehe
- should avoid cabbage (i eat cabbage most of the time coz it won't get rod & will last longer in the fridge=.=); avoid oranges (geez i eat that almost everyday =.=),
- avoid most of the meat ( luckily i'm not the carnivorous type, okay i can only eat chicken & no processed meat plz!)
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& so recently i just bought grapefruits which is good for my blood type & boy it's so not nice to eat, it taste so sour & like a bit bitter ! no wonder it's so good for our health la, healthy foods usually taste horrible wan ,haha....Anyway if u ask me : "health & unheathy but delicious food", i would say, i'll eat the healthy food & as for the unhealthy & delicious food i'll eat in moderation, is that wise enough ? =)

Sweet Holidays

i think as time past, my blog will eventually be abandoned by me! haha i've always wanted to update then....keep on procrastinating & end up go & see other's blogs or hang out or dunno do wat la..that's the fact ,i will try to keep my blog up to date as much as possible....see when would be my next update though XD

Kay lets talk about my week long holidays. It was a great holiday for me although i never went back Kuching this time ei, but pls dun misunderstand....not that i became bad dy dun want to go back liao....or whatever lah, my actual reason is i got my own plan & also the flight ticket during raya season is not cheap....so i'm helping my parents to save money & am forking out my money to go travel XD

Yup i went to Melaka & Singapore by myself. A lot of ppl keeps on asking me " you go with who??", hugh i hate to answer that question ei, but thank you la, i know u all cares for me & knowing that it's dangerous for me to go alone, but of cuz i'll be independent enough to take care by myself & ...if for those who understand me de, u will know i will enjoy my trip very much eventhough i'm alone de so dun be worried that i would get bored ei hehe

dun know how to describe my trip , but to sum up ,my holidays were great & i gain a lot of knowlwedge & outlook of the outside world, at least this time i didn't spend my holidays being a pig sleep, eat the whole day la hahaz ...& also i also found my passion in photographing throughout this trip :D:D, didn't know it's such a fun to take photograph of a beautiful scene & that's it, proceed to the next place & take photograph again.... i guess i'm going to go buy myself a camera soon, can anyone introduce me which one should i buy ....lumix? olympus is better rite? or sony one??

Malacca trips









Trip de Singapore







P.s. more photos in my facebook albums

Love, lust, or just blind?

Long time never update my blog dy, i've been busy with assignments & also i went out quite often nowadays hahaz

next week would be the sixth week of my sem 4 theory class & the following week i'm going out for my clinical practice dy, so fast ei, anyway i should be happy that time can past by that quickly,what makes me say time past quite fast is because i get to spend my time more efficiently & wisely, i mean in both entertainment & studies ei, i'm not the nerdy type & i can't stand spending the whole day sitting at the same place doing the same things, i will get backache one haha...

hmm no idea want to post about what??
kay i have this feelings nowadays.....
recently i heard a lot from my surrounding friends bout their quarreling & breakup with their boyfriends
i was thinking...why is it all always end up with "breakup" & seldom do i heard of couples who remains & maintain...
if i were to have a boyfriend & having the feelings that i'll breakup with my boyfriend in the end, i wouldn't want to have or start a commitment with him..
for me "breakup" meant a lot to me & i would rather remain single than to experience a tragic breakup, i mean we can always be friends but not in a relationship if we feel that the guy don't suits you rite?

"LOVES ARE NOT BLIND"
i wouldn't deny that i'm somewhat quite choosy when it comes to relationship

but i'll remind myself that not everyone in this world is perfect & as a girl we shouldn't be OVER choosy & to know the meaning of true love, that is we shouldn't love a guy just because he's rich & handsome without knowing your true feelings towards him, that's called lust & not love

though sometimes i may feel lonely & of course i'll feel like wanting to have a companionship, but for a person like me who never have a relationship before, that makes me tougher coz we tend to be more independent without being controlled by our boyfriend rite? like i heard sometimes the girl wants to go out with friends & end up was not allowed by her boyfriend.....poor girl aren't we suppose to enjoy life??

Now i do enjoy my life being single, i get to hang out with friends, i get to go shopping & enjoy myself without being controlled by others,& independence means happiness

I'm still young & of course
CAREERS & STUDIES come first
god will decide on my future
just let nature take it's course :)

Picture post @ Kuching Trip

At Kuching waterfront

Faye & Pei Ching in the sampan

me & Ching

waiting for the sampan

iban dishes @ regina's house,its nice & taste really different from our chinese dishes





@ the butterfly muzium, but i can't see any butterfly though=.=

@ Buntal village, dishes belanja by me ...so don't say i'm so selfish never belanja u all k haha

Happy moments @ the serene beach :)

beautiful sunset

@ Permai beach resort



cultural village, the rainforest festival is coming in the following two weeks time

stairs of the traditional iban house





it's a Kitty cemetery




@ cat muzium

@ cultural village wth my iban classmate Regina, the weather was super duper hot =.="

Faye blowing the pipe @ the penan hutch

we are the natives of Sarawak, haha






Faye camwhoring in my car




Favourite Kuching dishes

First week in meow meow city :P

It has been almost a week since i came back to Kuching dy, & it has been an interesting & busy week for me :D:D

I've went to several places, as i've said in my previous post i'm going to be the driver to bring Su Faye & Pei Ching to travel around this City of cats, haha :D
On the first day, we went for our breakfast at the so called "BDC lao hang jia" ,then we start our journey to cultural village, in which i myself also never been there before haha =.= At least i get to know more insight about the different culture in my own hometown Sarawak after this trip la,... gosh what also don't know, cannot call myself a kuching citizen liao lo, haha....then off we went to camp Permai, in which i think this is the first time i went there, the beach there was nice & quite clean, me & xin pei the tour guide both cannot swim wan waited for Faye & Ching ,while they were immersing themselves in the beach, it was already near sunset already & so there was not even a single soul except for six of us there, haha, anyway it's quit a nice place to camp there , hope there will be a next time though =.=

On the way back, we stop by at the so called "TEO SEAFOOD" at Buntal village to have our tea break, we actually had our "tea break" at 6PM ?!...coz we are going to have a second round BBQ at xin pei's house that night, somemore i also promise them i'll belanja them to eat seafood wad, i'll keep my word de, haha

Ok, we ended our trip at around 9pm....nothing to say much,hehe..will upload the photo , to be continued......